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Whitehorse women speak out against violence

Jacqueline Ronson Friday June 22, 2012

Ian Stewart/Yukon News

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Tamara Lucas was kidnapped six years ago. She hopes sharing her story will help other women who have experienced violence.

Tamara Lucas, 26, exudes confidence.

She’s tall, slim, blonde, and she carries herself with poise. Hers is not the first image that comes to mind when you think of “kidnap and rape victim.”

When Lucas heard about the Yukon government’s Am I the Solution? campaign, which asks people to confront their ideas about violence against women, she saw an opportunity.

“What a great campaign, and what a great way for me to try and get involved in it and for me to try and help women,” she recalled thinking.

She told the Yukon News her story in a crowded Starbucks, without lowering her voice, as if she had told it dozens of times before.

In 2006, Mitchell Leblanc, who had been her friend for two years and was 38 at the time, kidnapped Lucas.

First, he tied her up in her home and raped her.

Leblanc then tied her to his truck and drove to Liard Hot Springs.

He said he needed her to kill him because he couldn’t do it himself.

He forced her to cut his wrists as they sat in the hot water, but the blood kept clotting.

In the morning, tourists began to show up. Leblanc got them both back to the truck.

At a pullout near Marsh Lake, he told her that she needed to finish the job.

“Right when he handed me the knife I looked over and saw a cop passing, and I was just thinking to myself, ‘Please pull in here, please pull in here.’”

The cop did, and four more followed. They surrounded the truck, but Leblanc held a knife to Lucas’ throat and they backed off.

She cut him as deeply as she could.

When he stopped replying, she ran out of the truck towards the police.

The ordeal had lasted more than two days.

Leblanc survived.

In June 2007, Leblanc pleaded guilty to kidnapping, possession of a weapon for a dangerous purpose, and two counts of sexual assault. He was sentenced to nine years in prison.

The justice process helped her heal, Lucas said.

She didn’t have to tell her story in court, but she did.

“It took a lot of courage to stand up in front of that whole room.”

A few months ago, Lucas travelled to southern B.C. so she could read her victim impact statement in person at Leblanc’s parole hearing.

She requested and was granted an order banning Leblanc from the Yukon until 2015.

She hopes her story will help other women come forward.

“You need to talk about it or you’re just going to blow up. You’re going to self-destruct.”

Lucas thinks she might try to return to Liard Hot Springs one day.

“If there’s too many bad memories, well then I leave. And if there’s not, well then I move forward. I walk down the boardwalk, I try to put my feet in the water. It’s one step at a time, it’s one day at a time.”

Britta Andreas, 30, also heard about the Am I the Solution? campaign this week, and came forward with her own story.

Last weekend she stopped into a bar to say hi to some friends, she said.

When the conversation turned to the musician on stage, Andreas mentioned that she had met him once at a bar three years ago, and that he had hit on her. She wasn’t interested and they both moved on.

After Andreas had left the bar this past weekend, a friend struck up a conversation with the musician.

The friend mentioned to the man that her friend had said that he had hit on her three years ago.

He asked for Andreas’ name.

The next day, he updated his status on Facebook. It started like this:

“Last night some girl named Britta was talking smack about me to a friend and said apparently I hit on her once. Sorry, I don’t hit on water filters… What is your dad’s name? Moen?”

He then suggested that maybe he was only being nice to her, unlike other guys who have sex with her after getting drunk on tequila and cheap beer.

His language was much less flattering.

Andreas said she feels “harassed, insulted, ashamed,” at the false comments.

The man is a minor local celebrity, with over 1,100 friends on Facebook. That’s a lot in a small town like Whitehorse, Andreas said.

She feels her name has been tarnished. It is unlikely that she will introduce herself as, “Britta, like the water filter,” again.

Some of her friends are hesitant to support her publicly, and advised her against speaking up, Andreas said.

“It just feels like people don’t want to get involved. And it’s disappointing, it’s sad.”

The post has since been deleted, but Andreas still hopes the man will find a way to apologize to her and to her partner of three years.

Julie Menard, who is one of the organizers of Am I the Solution?, said that the comments about Andreas represent a perfect example of the attitudes and behaviours the campaign hopes to target.

Men who consider themselves to be non-violent, regular guys need to think about how what they say and do might contribute to violence against women, Menard said.

For both men and women, speaking out is the hardest part. And it can be especially challenging in small communities, she said.

“It’s easier not to speak up. But I cannot stress enough that by saying nothing, you’re supporting the abuser, and you’re actually revictimizing the victim.”

When we don’t speak out about the smaller things, it creates a culture where more blatant violence is possible, Menard said.

“(An abusive) post, for me, is as unacceptable as a rape.”

She hopes that people will hear these stories and think about something they did or failed to do in the past. Maybe next time, they will act differently.

“It’s to make people realize, well hold on, I will say something, or I will support the person who is getting victimized 100 per cent, not just 50 per cent.”

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27 Comments

Chantal wrote:
12:04am Friday July 6, 2012

Why the woman who got insulted has some issues and not the man who posted something on his FB? Because she is a woman…?

Thanks to Mike and Scott who are getting the point!

chucky wrote:
8:18pm Thursday July 5, 2012

Really? the first part of the story demands to be heard and shared, but the second half…come on people if your skin is really that soft i feel sorry for you, everything must suck for you unless its peaches and cream. the world has a lot more problems then name calling and feelings getting hurt over something someone said on FB honestly YN go do some real news stuff..and to the Britta person, something tells me your story about him hitting on you was more then what was written..if its not then you got issues

scott wrote:
6:22pm Wednesday July 4, 2012

Why are so many here focussing on the water filter comment?

“He then suggested that maybe he was only being nice to her, unlike other guys who have sex with her after getting drunk on tequila and cheap beer.

His language was much less flattering.

Andreas said she feels “harassed, insulted, ashamed,” at the false comments. “

These are, obviously, allegations based around her sexuality that he is trying to use to demean her. Please actually read the article before forming an opinion.

Leon wrote:
10:39pm Tuesday July 3, 2012

Dial down the myopia.
This is not a black and white world.
Being called a water-filter doesn’t equate abuse of any kind. Period.
Grow. Up.

PS - Don’t be such an air-conditioning unit.

Scott wrote:
8:56pm Monday July 2, 2012

The campaign is excellent-but a word to those who claim to be onboard with it, state that “awareness is good”, and then support abusive comments put up on Facebook:

Awareness alone isn’t the point—we should all know full well, I think, that women experience a disproportionate level of violence. Note that stating this means neither ignoring nor minimizing other types of violence, but just means acknowledging that this particular aspect is worth targeting and opposing with specific strategies.

The point isn’t just to be “aware,” but to actively oppose violence in all of its forms, as well as in its social background: sexism, xenophobia, oppression. Julie’s point isn’t that any act of abuse is fully equal, but rather, that any form of abuse is completely unacceptable, i.e., is worth opposing.

This social media campaign is about precisely the kind of thing ms. Andreas bring up: acts of abuse, whether verbal or physical, that are generally ignored and—as many commenters have made clear—are even actively defended. This is a clear case of public harrassment, and of sexism: this man attempted to attack this woman on Facebook—which, yes, is a public space—based on allegations surrounding her sexuality. He is viciously trying to demean her as a person and assert his superiority, based, in large part, on her simply being a woman. Ask yourself: would trying to demean a man based on sexual promiscuity have the same implications as when targeted at a woman?

bekindtooneanother wrote:
12:37am Thursday June 28, 2012

I hope these women see only that there are people who support and commend them for speaking out. I feel badly that a story meant to promote awareness and encourage other women to stand up for themselves, speak out, and stay strong no matter what they’ve been through has turned into a petty debate.

JJ wrote:
7:52pm Wednesday June 27, 2012

Maybe he would like to speak up for himself if the story is really so ‘FAR, far different’ from printed in the News. The woman who is getting attacked from all of you probably would like to see him ‘explaining’ as well. I was forced to read his post before I removed him from my Facebook friends. The Yukon News really didn’t do a good job of writing her story. I would love to show all of you his posting. But I am actually glad that we are not allowed to use any of these sick, un-true and non-sense phrases to attack somebody (it doesn’t matter if female or male) in public space. Too bad that he didn’t know….

Jenny wrote:
5:00pm Wednesday June 27, 2012

Violence against women shouldn’t even be an issue in 2012. It’s sad that it is. Tamara’s story is one of hope, courage, strength. Thank you for taking the time to share that. You never know who it might help. As for the other story. One side of an argument and a FB post is what you print these days? I know the other side and it is FAR, far different from that and in no way tied to this campaign.

Rachel F. wrote:
4:07pm Wednesday June 27, 2012

Is the Yukon News really printing FB posts that we can’t even read to know if it is true??? It sounds like a spat between those two and nothing to do with violence against women or rape. But keep up the writing.
You’ll get there eventually. And if Tamara is reading this: You are such a strong person and a true hero in life for just living.

Bond007 wrote:
3:39pm Wednesday June 27, 2012

This article was so horrible written. I feel sorry for Tamara, who really went through hell, to have to read the rest of this article. To post one alleged facebook post and cry that your life is over. It didn’t sound sexist to me. And there are always two sides to every story. I would love to hear the other side. But then again I am sure she has never posted anything that someone disagreed with on facebook. Is the Yukon News so hard up for stories that they are grabbing random facebook posts that have nothing to do with sexism or rape?

Brenda Barnes wrote:
9:25pm Tuesday June 26, 2012

“Females continue to be the most likely victims in police-reported spousal violence, acconting for 83% of victims compared to 17% males. This holds true for every province and territory across Canada.” Statistics Canada: Family Violence: Spousal Violence in Canada 2008

Mike wrote:
10:53pm Monday June 25, 2012

Leon - the Facebook story IS NOT ridiculous. As a matter of fact, the sexist/racist comment on the guys’ FB site might have had more readers than this article. Facebook is a public sphere. 1000+ followers is a bigger audience than this guy would be able to speak to with soapboxing - people not being aware of the publicness of social networks should not even be allowed to comment on an online article. 
Any insult based on a foreign first name is racist, and I am not even willing to imagine what that person wrote and what the YN so politely paraphrases as “guys who have sex with her after getting drunk on tequila and cheap beer”. Racism and sexism in ANY form needs to be opposed, not denounced “ridiculous”

Sam wrote:
3:40pm Monday June 25, 2012

Heartfelt thanks to Ms. Lucas for sharing her story and being so brave. 
I commend you and appreciate your strength and have the utmost respect for your courage.

Leon wrote:
2:00pm Monday June 25, 2012

Calling someone a water filter isn’t abuse - it isn’t even an insult.
There’s nothing silly about the campaign, but to us grown adults reading this story, the Facebook thing is completely
ridiculous. Non-sequiturs aren’t insults. I would now really love to read the following discourse on how exactly someone who introduces herself as “like the water filter” feels attacked by a vague non-acquaintance calling her such on a forum that until The News published the comment - wasn’t public.
And “local celebrity” - Good Lord - We live in a SMALL town.
Again - this campaign is good. Awareness is good.
The Facebook story IS ridiculous.

Chantal wrote:
3:50am Monday June 25, 2012

Obviously a few didn´t get the sexism/racism in this facebook post and how it made a woman feel. Violence is not just physical. What happened to Tamara is horrifying but it doesn´t make posts like this - I just can imagine how it sounded because I am guessing who it was - acceptable. I wish more people up here could see the importance in a statement like this.

Alan wrote:
11:40pm Sunday June 24, 2012

The talk of violence against women is over due, but Yukon News won’t print comments about women who commit violence.
Ms. Asp, recently convicted of 2nd degree murder while on parole for manslaughter, proves that criminality is not gender based.

Leanne wrote:
10:07pm Sunday June 24, 2012

NJ- your experience in education and online bullying comes from high school aged children. This woman who had an uncomfortable experience on Facebook is 30 years old.
Britta should know the reason her friends didn’t stand behind her 100% is because no one would wish to be seen debating over your pal being referred to as a, “water filtration system”. If Tamara Lucas was kidnapped and taken to Liard Hotsprings only to be called a ‘water filtration system’, would this article exist??

Jennifer Hackwell wrote:
6:18pm Sunday June 24, 2012

I wonder if those who think the Facebook status is “silly” also think that the “Am I the Solution” campaign is silly? The whole idea of the campaign is to make us aware of the way we think and the things we say, small and insignificant though they may be. This man stood on a virtual soapbox and publicly attacked another person’s character. We wouldn’t tolerate that on the street – why is it different on social media sites? Violence is a spectrum that comes in many forms. Dismissing some as “silly” allows people to continue this kind of behaviour when we should actually be all standing up together against it.

NJ wrote:
5:08pm Saturday June 23, 2012

@0099 I agree that the idea of going to the newspaper over FB posts is silly but in the context of the article I understand the reporter’s motivation in including it. The extremely violent act commited against Tamara is shocking and reprehensible. Abuse comes in all forms and public, written harassment should be just as unaccepable to our community. Working in education, I have encountered many incidents of on-line bullying among students and the fear and shame these young people feel is real. It disgusts me to hear that this very minor “local celebrity” chooses to act in such a manner, as he also spends time working with youth in a mentoring role.

Alan wrote:
3:41pm Saturday June 23, 2012

God made man, Sam Colt made them equal.
This old west gun advertisement can be updated to say all non criminal women should be allowed to carry a hand gun especially in the north. These guns would only be used to terminate the scavengers mentioned in the article and their fellow aggressors.

Michael Tillmann wrote:
10:25am Saturday June 23, 2012

Julie Menard is quoted as saying “An abusive post is unacceptable to me as rape”.  Truly?  Well, that is just absurd.  There are degrees of everything, and saying that an abusive written comment is just as bad as having intercourse forced on you is ridiculous.

Tuk wrote:
8:27am Saturday June 23, 2012

I feel as if the Yukon News double shamed Tamara Lucas for allowing her article of horrific violence be shared with a story of an ‘uncomfortable’ Facebook experience.

Magumfrey wrote:
3:47am Saturday June 23, 2012

I disagree with the “silly FB” comment, while being in complete agreement with the rest—especially the kudos part to this brave woman.  I can’t know who the ‘minor local celebrity’ is, but I have one suspicion because I know someone of that description (and there are only a few who could be called that) who was given a restraining order some years ago, and if it’s the same person, I hope reading this will dampen his ardour.  Make him think twice.  And if it’s not who I suspect, then same story: “I’d better watch it.”

Jerry255 wrote:
3:18am Saturday June 23, 2012

Honestly I believe most violence is a direct result of laws that do not allow us to police ourselves and hinder any form of rebuke for bad social behaviour.  We know who the abusers are and they get away with it because we’re not allowed to touch them without fear of being thrown in jail and vilified as doing the right thing in this day and age has become illegal with rare exceptions.

Jen G wrote:
2:47am Saturday June 23, 2012

Great story and campaign to raise awareness about violence against women and how so called ‘casual’ cruel acts (like facebook statuses) make it harder for people to speak out about what happens to them.  I applaud these women for their bravery.  The previous commenter seems to be trying to shame one of them into silence about being publically mistreated ... what’s up with that?

Lily wrote:
2:11am Saturday June 23, 2012

Thank you so much for sharing your stories. I commend and respect the strength and courage you have. Change is the world is needed. It always will be needed.

0099 wrote:
1:15am Saturday June 23, 2012

Good for you Tamara for standing strong and moving on despite such a horrific act! I do think that publishing a facebook status in the news is a little silly! Yes, it wasnt very nice but there is a lot said on social media sites, some serious and some not. I dont think that it should be included in a violence against women campaign. Can you imagine if everyone went to the newspaper about something that was said about you on facebook?

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